San, Mission Bay is not near the port. It is within driving distance and I'd estimate a cab ride to be at least 30 or more dollars depending on the traffic.
Do you want a buffet or a more traditional type of dinner? On shelter island there is Tom Homs or Hams lighthouse that has a holiday buffet and there are hotels. I don't recall seeing any stores there either.
If you aren't getting a rental car stay downtown as they are near the pier and there is Horton Plaza for shopping, and has all your major stores along with lots of smaller ones.
I'll look for another website link for you and post sometime tomorrow. I'll also look at the area around the hotel and search for some stores.
Diane
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